Luckily for me, I have been married over 45 years. This is not to say it has been easy. My husband can get frustrated with my illness. With 4 grown children, 8 grand children, and 2 great grand children it is very difficult because there are many expectations! I am 5'4", and about 125. I do not look sick at all so many times friends and family do not understand why I get out of breath and sick a lot. But! It is not impossible to maintain a very healthy relationship with a partner at all if they are understanding and realize certain limitations. That being said, there are moments as with any other loving relationship that sometimes you will not feel loved or understood enough. The only advise to anyone with this is when times like this happen, because they will, know that it is a normal part of living. Sometimes I try to understand how my partner feels, and try to give leeway to the feelings of others. In times like this, it may be helpful to do something good for yourself. Take a time out, or a quiet time to re evaluate any stressors that developed that could have caused you or your partner to feel taken advantage of, impatience with, or harsh words said. Remember that in these instances, time really can heal. Take a breather from each other for a little bit and come back with a different perspective. If you feel truly wronged or hurt or verbally or even physically abused in any way, talk about it with a family member you trust, or a friend you feel comfortable with, even your doctor or health care provider. Remember, the one you have chosen to share your life with and the person you may meet will want to love the person that you are and your health issues do not define who you are!