OK guys, here is the important fact. This disease impacts the autonomic function, and there are few things more dependent upon the autonomic system than developing and maintaining an erection.
But there are few things more impotant than a healthy relationship, with or without sex.
My husband used to take care of me. Today I take care of him, including helping him with a BM, condom catheter, and bathing him. While our expression of love has changed, our love for one another has not.