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Is it easy to find a partner and/or maintain relationship when you have Charcot-Marie-Tooth Disease?

People with experience in Charcot-Marie-Tooth Disease give their opinion on whether it is easy or not to have a partner or to maintain a realationship when you are diagnosed of Charcot-Marie-Tooth Disease. What are the possible difficulties in having a relationship?

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Is it easy to find a partner and/or maintain a relationship when you have Charcot-Marie-Tooth Disease?


Charcot-Marie-Tooth Disease (CMT) is a hereditary neurological disorder that affects the peripheral nerves, leading to muscle weakness and sensory loss. Living with CMT can present unique challenges, both physically and emotionally. When it comes to finding a partner and maintaining a relationship, individuals with CMT may face certain obstacles, but it is important to remember that love and connection are possible for everyone, regardless of their health condition.


Challenges in finding a partner:


While CMT may pose some challenges in finding a partner, it is crucial to approach the search with confidence and a positive mindset. Here are a few factors that individuals with CMT may consider:



  • Physical limitations: CMT can cause muscle weakness, mobility issues, and fatigue. These physical limitations may make it more challenging to engage in certain activities or participate in social events. However, it is important to remember that there are many ways to connect with others that do not solely rely on physical abilities. Exploring shared interests, hobbies, or intellectual pursuits can help foster connections.

  • Self-esteem and body image: Living with a chronic condition like CMT can sometimes impact self-esteem and body image. It is essential to cultivate self-acceptance and focus on the qualities that make you unique and lovable. Building a strong sense of self-worth can attract potential partners who appreciate and value you for who you are.

  • Disclosure and communication: Deciding when and how to disclose your condition to a potential partner can be a personal choice. Some individuals prefer to share this information early on, while others may choose to wait until they have established a deeper connection. Open and honest communication is key in any relationship, and discussing your condition can help foster understanding and empathy.


Maintaining a relationship:


Once you have found a partner, maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship requires effort from both individuals. Here are some considerations for individuals with CMT:



  • Support and understanding: It is important to be with a partner who is supportive and understanding of your condition. They should be willing to learn about CMT, its impact on your life, and how they can provide assistance when needed. A strong support system can help navigate the challenges that may arise.

  • Adaptation and flexibility: CMT is a progressive condition, and its symptoms may change over time. Both partners should be adaptable and flexible in adjusting to these changes. This may involve finding new ways to engage in activities together or seeking alternative forms of intimacy and connection.

  • Emotional well-being: Living with a chronic condition can sometimes lead to emotional challenges such as frustration, sadness, or anxiety. It is important to prioritize your emotional well-being and seek support when needed. This may include therapy, support groups, or open conversations with your partner about your feelings.


Conclusion:


While Charcot-Marie-Tooth Disease may present certain challenges in finding a partner and maintaining a relationship, it is important to approach these aspects of life with optimism and an open heart. Building a strong sense of self-worth, effective communication, and finding a supportive partner are key factors in fostering a successful and fulfilling relationship. Remember, love knows no boundaries, and with the right mindset and support, individuals with CMT can find happiness and connection in their personal lives.


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I hate to speculate on this but I would say yes and no if you don’t have the support of your partner When you have this disorder it is very hard to manage life,. Finding a partner that can except the deformities and Limitationsof the disease is hard.

Posted May 21, 2018 by Joe 4050
Is very hard. But i hope!

Posted May 22, 2018 by Gabriel 1700
I was with my husband for 12 years before being diagnosed and starting symptoms. We already have watched my father struggle. Doesn't make it easier when someone is diagnosed with a disease that will affect everyone's life. Keep up the communication. Take care of yourself and understand when your partner is over bearing at times it is out of love and worry.

Posted May 22, 2018 by Dawn 4050
It should be no harder than for anyone else. Of course, some people don’t like “disease” or the idea of having potentially disabled children, so that can be problematic. Honesty is the best policy. Educate your partner, make them understand the ramifications and there shouldn’t be a problem.

Posted May 23, 2018 by Karencmt 2620
Yes it is. You just have to find someone that will love you even when you might have to be in a wheelchair. And they will have to want to help you a lot including with opening things and getting around. They also have to know where your breaking point is and your weaknesses so they know when to not push you harder

Posted May 23, 2018 by SavShelton 2550
Yes, but it only fair and right to advise your partner, in relation to reproduction issues.

Posted May 29, 2018 by Daniel 4200
My wife is extremely understanding and helpful

Posted Dec 8, 2019 by Bob 1400
Perhaps it is slightly harder to find/maintain a relationship with CMT because it is a progressive disease. But if you have a strong relationship you can weather anything.

Posted Feb 7, 2020 by Roberta 1900
THIS ENTIRELY DEPENDS ON THE SEVERITY OF THE PERSON'S DISABILITY WHEN TRYING TO FIND A PARTNER AND THE PERSON'S ACCEPTANCE OF THE DISORDER. IF THE PERSON IS UNABLE TO ACCEPT (NOT RESIGN TO) THE PRESENCE OF THE DISORDER IT IS LIKELY TO HAVE A NEGATIVE EFFECT ON AN ABILITY TO FIND A PARTNER. MAINTAINING A RELATIONSHIP IS DEPENDENT ON THE PERSON'S BEING OPEN AND HONEST WITH THE PARTNER. IT IS ALSO DEPENDENT ON THE PARTNER'S ABILITY TO HANDLE A POSSIBILITY THE AFFECTED PERSON MAY BECOME INCREASINGLY DEBILITATED. RELATIONSHIPS IN WHICH ONE PARTNER BECOMES DISABLED OR IS THREATENED WITH A SEVERE AND/OR CHRONIC DISEASE ARE VERY LIKELY TO END IN THE RELATIONSHIP ENDING.

Posted Feb 9, 2020 by Jim 3000
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If. There are No drawbacks

Posted Sep 4, 2017 by Lorena 2000

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