Dear Jan Just a few days back I came to know my daughter also has Cohen's. At this time I do not have any words to express what I am going through. I came through your post and want to thank you for sharing this brief. As I am new to this board, I don't know if I can message you to be able to connect to get more details. In past few days things are becoming clearer .. 'why me' is making more sense now. Your closing statement of Andy being your love of life and blessing from God is absolutely true. He couldn't have trusted the soul within Andy to anyone other than you. Now I understand why I love my daughter so much and why I consider her to be a blessing every day.