Living with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome / M.E.. How to live with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome / M.E.?

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Living with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome / M.E.


Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, also known as Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (CFS/ME), is a complex and debilitating condition that affects millions of people worldwide. It is characterized by extreme fatigue that cannot be explained by any underlying medical condition and is not relieved by rest. Living with CFS/ME can be challenging, but with the right strategies and support, it is possible to manage the symptoms and improve your quality of life.



1. Educate Yourself


Understanding CFS/ME is crucial for managing the condition effectively. Research and learn about the symptoms, causes, and available treatments. This knowledge will empower you to make informed decisions about your health and communicate effectively with healthcare professionals.



2. Pace Yourself


Pacing is a key strategy for managing CFS/ME. It involves balancing activities and rest to avoid overexertion and crashes. Listen to your body and prioritize activities based on your energy levels. Break tasks into smaller, manageable chunks, and take regular breaks to prevent exhaustion.



3. Establish a Routine


Creating a structured daily routine can help manage symptoms and conserve energy. Establish regular sleep patterns, meal times, and rest periods. Stick to a consistent schedule as much as possible, but also be flexible and adapt to your energy levels on any given day.



4. Manage Stress


Stress can exacerbate symptoms of CFS/ME. Identify and minimize sources of stress in your life. Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga. Engage in activities that promote relaxation and well-being, such as listening to calming music or taking a warm bath.



5. Prioritize Sleep


Quality sleep is essential for managing CFS/ME. Establish a relaxing bedtime routine and create a sleep-friendly environment. Avoid stimulating activities, caffeine, and electronic devices before bed. If sleep disturbances persist, consult with a healthcare professional for guidance.



6. Seek Support


Living with CFS/ME can be isolating, but you are not alone. Reach out to support groups, both online and in-person, to connect with others who understand your experiences. Sharing your challenges and successes with people who can relate can provide valuable emotional support and practical advice.



7. Communicate with Others


Openly communicate with your family, friends, and coworkers about your condition. Help them understand the limitations and challenges you face. Establish clear boundaries and ask for their support and understanding. Educating those around you can foster a supportive environment and reduce misunderstandings.



8. Manage Symptoms


Work closely with your healthcare team to manage specific symptoms of CFS/ME. This may include medications to alleviate pain, improve sleep, or manage other associated conditions. Explore complementary therapies such as acupuncture, massage, or cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) to find what works best for you.



9. Adapt Your Lifestyle


Accepting and adapting to the limitations imposed by CFS/ME is essential for managing the condition effectively. Adjust your expectations and set realistic goals. Modify your lifestyle to accommodate your energy levels and prioritize activities that bring you joy and fulfillment.



10. Stay Positive


Maintaining a positive mindset can make a significant difference in managing CFS/ME. Celebrate small victories, focus on what you can do rather than what you can't, and practice self-compassion. Surround yourself with supportive and understanding individuals who uplift and encourage you.



Living with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome / M.E. requires patience, self-care, and a proactive approach. By implementing these strategies and seeking appropriate support, you can improve your quality of life and find ways to thrive despite the challenges.


by Diseasemaps

Pace, Pace and Pace some more

12/20/19 by ME International

It isn't easy to live with, but things are improving and there is a lot to be hopeful for. There is still a stigma, even amongst healthcare professionals. I advise finding support online and educating yourself and the people around you as much as possible. It might help to take someone with you when you see a doctor, in case you get tongue-tied. Remember that some people get better and a cure may be just round the corner. In the interim, it might help to change your expectations and find new ways to enjoy yourself, but stay positive, because there is always hope. Remember there will be good days as well as bad.

2/21/17 by Catherine 1002

Learn to relax

5/4/17 by Ben 1079

My advice on being happy is to learn to be ok with you our new normal. I can't say that it doesn't frustrate or depress me when I look at my disastrous house mess or not being able to hold a good conversation or do normal activities without planning but the sooner you are able to let go of the expectations of being able to do the same things as before had CFS, easier it will be to find the small blessings of each day.

5/13/17 by missylob 1056

You can be happy...but only if you have support around you. It's frustrating and nor easy.

8/27/17 by Emy 2050

Yes you can be happy. I try to see the positive in everything. Accept this is where you are at but do not let it define who you are. Continue to reach for your goals and make this your back seat driver.

8/30/17 by Jaime 800

My life has changed radically since having ME. I used to be very fit, in an average week, I'd cycle 60 miles, run 2, swim 1, do weights, cardio and circuit train. I also worked 3 days a week, had 3 children of my own and fostered another 2. I became ill on a cycling holiday and haven't been able to get in my bike since. It would be easy to give up, to wallow in self pity and depression, but I'm choosing not to. I have had to reevaluate my life and look at how I measure achievement. I am the emotional rock of my family and friends. I'm who people look to for love and support. I have develop new hobbies and interests and am happy. My life looks very different but is still good. Think about what you want from life, what you can put in. Grieve for what you've lost, yes, but don't wallow in it. Find a support group. Share how you feel, accept help. Having ME does not diminish you as a person, needing help and support is a gift you can give to the person who helps you. They will feel good about themselves for having helped you; that's a blessing to them.

9/5/17 by Shirley 2050

I have organized my life around each stage of the disease to stay independent, continue to do research, maintain contact with doctors and family, but every year my energy has been cut in half so I also have a will & DNR instructions ready & waiting...

9/7/17 by 2560

I had to mourn my old life. I could ok longer do all the things I did before and that was hard. Once I allowed myself to mourn that loss though and accept my limits I began to see all the blessings in life and to enjoy what I do have. I may not be able to jog anymore, but I can sit in a cafe and read a book. I cannot go to the supermarket but I am blessed to live in a county where my shopping can be delivered to my door.

9/8/17 by Sam 1400

I'm living by keeping constant contact with doctors. Although they have not yet been able to cure me or come close to it I believe constant contact with doctors will keep me alive longer-somehow. You can be happy with ME. Happiness is a state of mind. If you are experiencing depression, anxiety or other illness you must be treated. I'm not completely happy with ME- how could I possibly be? I can't go to a carnival or concert. I live in bed. I can walk and drive, but it severely limited me to 20-22 hours of bedrest. I'm going through a divorce and I'm lonely. I still believe happiness is a state of mind. Study buddhism and Christianity. You may find peace in your religion of choice.

9/10/17 by Sharon 1500

Rest is the only way

1/17/18 by Annette 2500

Happy is not what you are with CFS-ME, whoever wrote that. Pace yourself. Keep in balance and in check. Neither excite yourself too much, nor let yourself get too depressed. From my experience both have the same affect. They are not the center where your balance is.

3/2/18 by Beti 2700

I have to limit activities and rest more often. I had to take early retirement from my demanding job as a middle school teacher. The mental, emotional and physical stress became unbearable. To be happy, surround yourself with positive people, treat yourself kindly, don’t feel guilty saying “no”, eat well, and sleep as much as you need to sleep. The most helpful things for me personally is to pray and look for the beauty in life. Look for the little things, flowers blooming, butterflies in flowers, birds at your bird feeder, beautiful clouds.... whatever you find beautiful.

8/9/18 by cathy 2500

Find simple things to enjoy doing from your bed stay connected to people online as much as you can meditate [the ME way.. not the normal way.. meaning breathe] and rest/sleep when you can as you can toss sleep hygiene manuals and psych meds in the trash these will further damage you brain and do what you can as you can, but never push remember your body is very sick be kind to yourself

4/6/19 by Fadra 2550

Work on getting a clean environment around you--fragrance-free, chemical free, EMF-free. Take time once a week to reflect upon the good this condition has brought into your life. Count your blessings. Sleep as much as you need to. Use your intuition--do not put anything into your mouth or go into any environment that feels bad for you.

12/12/19 by Joanna 6200

Pace and learn to say no. Teach your friends and family about this conditon by referring to the ICC. Here is a link to the ICC information.https://www.me-international.org/understanding-criteria.html

12/21/19 by Pam 3550
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To be happy I always say the same thing, regardless of the disease/problem that you had, or that, even if there is none: ENJOY THE SMALL MOMENTS.

2/24/17 by Anabel Albornoz Molinari. Translated
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With the help of my psych, I try to be positive but it is very difficult When your life and those of your loved ones rocking.

3/9/17 by Edith. Translated
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Above all hope, and think that they would put something to heal and then think that you have to live with it and not to give up, fight

5/12/17 by Marisa. Translated
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Accept the disease and not struggle to be a cone we were before

5/25/17 by Yolanda Valledor. Translated
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As already answered there is that work part psychological and affective, and eliminate stress.

9/11/17 by Eduardo Casasnovas. Translated
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I don't know you can be happy when they lost various members of the body. But we must not be pessimistic, to where you can relacionate with others,find out what spiritual and make it something that you want.

9/11/17 by Haydee de bielik. Translated
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Be happy - it is possible if you suffer from MS at an acceptable level, that is to say if you don't belong to the 25% of the bedridden without hope. I would say better: You can accept the disease, adapt to it with self-help and support groups and material support, to live a day structured and quiet. Without sobreexigirse, without stress, without people toxic! With positive thinking!

10/19/17 by Heidrun Kroner. Translated

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