MOM

My daughter was born with AOS in 2010. She was born with aplasia cutis congenita on her head and shortened toes on one foot, also webbed. She had constipation issues and absence seizures that she was being medicated for, that she hasn't had for about a year now. Her father refused testing for which gene caused it and the geneticist refused to have me tested so I'm not sure if I carry the gene or not, so impossible to know if it's sporadic or genetic. I find it weird that other people get testing so easily but my daughter's geneticist says I don't need to know if I carry the gene or not. I have a heart shaped uterus and bleeding during first trimester, and had the h1n1 shot during pregnancy. Would like to know about other moms pregnancies.