mother know's best

When he was born I knew right away something was wrong. Aftwr a second opinion at only 17 days old he was diagnosed with Poland Syndrome. Along with numerous other problems he's a healthy boy. He is 5 now very anti-social, behavior problems and we arw trying to rule out Autism. If anyone could give me any input as to how it will affect him later in life please let mw know. For example pain, weakness, strengths