Being HIV+ is not the end of the world. It is a disease like any other that millions of people live with every day. People live with Heart Disease, Diabetes, COPD, High Blood Pressure and other conditions that require an adjustments in lifestyle just like HIV. A healthy sex life is also possible, with similar adjustments. In fact, current research indicates that an undetectable viral load is relatively safe to engage in sexual activity without transmission even during bareback sex. The greatest barrier to living a happy life with HIV remains the stigma associated with it by the uneducated. Become your own advocate, and educate partners about risk management and you'll find it relatively easy to live a happy life with HIV/AIDS as it is with any other disease requiring an adjustment in lifestyle.