When I was diagnosed with Lupus, I got in despair cuz I didn't knew the disease, had never heard of before, and had never known someone with this problem. I was very ill, and he thought that he was going to die, or that he was going to live forever as a sick, full of limitations. I've spent all money I had with doctors, expensive medications, therapies, trying to find a savior to my problem (I am indebted to hj because of this).
If you had just be diagnosed today, the first, would read enough on the subject ( blind ignorance, causes fear and insecurity), parallel to this, would a meditation to calm me down, put the head in place, write a diary, do not rush out to a lot of doctors, trust in the doctor that I had diagnosed or change the logo if you don't trust, change my diet radically ( it took me too long to figure out how much the foods were making me ill, mainly sugar and industrialized). Avoid the sun, but not to enter in a paranoia crazy ( this made me very ill tb., the feeling that I was stuck, without being able to go on the street).
If you're medicated, treating injuries, and feeding properly, wait and trust, will improve, and will pass, the best advice is...try to live the best you can, the best food (healthy of course), the best companies, the best sleep, delete everything that is bad for you and you will see how much you will improve and go back to having a life many times better than the one before of Lupus (this is my case).
Make a work of self-knowledge is paramount! Think about the vc, and what makes you well, in all senses of your life ( physical, emotional, and spiritual) is very worthwhile! Lupus has given me a great discovery of myself!