Grief is normal. See the best uveitis specialist and rheumatologists that you can travel to. DO NOT start Prednisone but start on Humira for first drug. Visit the eye dr at the very first small symptom immediately. Dont delay.
Remain positive, plan monthly visits to you specialist, ask many questions regarding your options. Ask your doctor which medications are best suited for you, ask sbout surgeries to correct you vision as this can greatly improve your vision