Honesty and openness is paramount. I may LOOK beautiful, attractive, healthy. Im outgoing, fearless and open about everything. I also VERY VERY SINGLE for 7 yrs. As soon as it looks like I have a connection with someone, I tell them about CRPS. They're gonna find out one way or another. I gauge their responses to the info. I ask questions and answer theirs. No surprises. I know that it takes a special person and a special connection to date me, spend time, be by my side, be strong for himself as he deals with seeing my pain. Not everyone is cut out for this life w me and I cant hold that against them. I need someone I know will react compassionately to my pain if I have to STOP in the middle of sex and wont continue to cause pain and wait for me to get thru it and come right back to him. I need open communication about how, when and where it's ok to touch me. Isnt that what any lover wants anyway? We just have to much more careful about it. I need someone with a steel spine to deal and soft heart to love me thru and inspite of my pain. It isnt easy and there have been train wrecks along the way. But I've also made many dear friends who may not be cut out to be my life partner but share awareness about CRPS and if I find myself in need, many are still there to this day. I know my perfect match is out there, just as for everyone else. I'd rather be single than with the wrong partner so I patiently wait and co tinue to be open to find him.