There is no single answer to finding a partner or maintaining a relationship for those with Scleroderma. For some, it won't make a difference but for some, it might make a difference to being a partner to someone who may face expensive medical treatments or medications in the future. It is said, "love conquers all," however, it is best to let a partner know if you already have Scleroderma because to use another cliche, "Honesty is the best polity!" Be honest and if someone wants to be your partner, it won't matter. My husband learned, with me, what was going on with my health and is still with me, sixteen years later. We've been through health issues together.