Ehlers Danlos should be diagnosed the same for all
It should involve reports from many Specialists depending on what the patient is presenting with of course Rheumatologist / Geneticist / Dermatologist / Cardiologist / Opthalmologist / Neurologist / Hematologist / Internist / Physiatrist
It should begin with a Geneticist that specializes in Connective Tissue Disorders
Genetic testing up front
Genetic counselling - not just a geneticist that says ' show me your tricks' and you need to perform like a circus dog. Only to be sore days later.
These doctors must all have knowledge that not ALL EDS patients are hypermobile, have stretchy skin, or are tall and lean. A multidisciplinary approach to diagnosis is necessary for all types.
Testing for the common cardiac issues / genetic markers / structural differences / full medical history that includes symptoms and abilities past and present / Full family medical history / physical examination / that doesnt just involve the 'party tricks'
Sometimes the patient is looking for a simple answer to a question and not necessarily a diagnosis or a new label. Most important of all in this process, is a strong General Practitioner that is allowed the extra time needed to coordinate the protocol of care recomended after a diagnosis has been made. Without that, things can be a struggle.
The patient is in the drivers seat in their care but you have to be able to trust in the skill and training and expertise of your medical team. If you can't freely talk to a doctor and you don't feel heard, try and talk to them about that. If you still don't feel heard, find another doctor. This however is easier said than done. Doctors deserve respect, Patients also deserve respect. You might know more about this illness than the doctors you meet along the way, but you are the patient and at some point you MUST trust your doctor. ALWAYS research in peer reviewed articles, find support systems around you, don't overwhelm in the moment but prepare for doctor visits, and if you know something is wrong (even if tests and assessments say otherwise) push till you are heard. Do that in a respectful calm way and bring someone with you to appointments that can speak and ask questions when you can't.
A team is what EDS'ers need, but the proper team that you choose and feel comfortable with. Know what each Specialist does and what they treat, make sure your referrals are done and the content of the referrals are appropriate to the reason for the appointment