My illness was an ongoing issue for my husband until I finally got a diagnosis and started taking him to my doctor appointments. I think it is hard for our loved ones to see us in pain, go to the doctor, and the doctors say they can't figure it out. This happens, sometimes, for years for people living with Sarcoidosis as it's a difficult disease to detect. It's hard for us to hear this, and harder for our loved ones to understand that we are suffering without a direct reason or treatment.